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How to Say Sorry & Why Apologizing is so Hard
For my quick how-to on how to say 'sorry'... scroll down to the bottom) Saying “sorry” is the worst - is it hard for you too? As an adult, I’m very aware of where I learned this from, but likewise - as an adult, it is now my responsibility to reprogram that. I’m an...
STOP Rejecting Compliments
This week's sexy pep talk was on why you need to start accepting more compliments. Watch this first and if this is something you're ready to shift in yourself, watch the second video below where for a *free* EFT tapping session on how to accept compliments.With lots...
My First Threesome Experience
Look at you, my naughty little voyeurist 😉 Ready to snuggle up for storytime as I share not one, but TWO stories – My first threesome experience AND my favorite threesome experience. My First Makeout Session with a Girl I know you’re here for a tell-all so I...
Feeling Your Feelings & Toxic Positivity
I remember the first time I came across the adage, ‘toxic positivity’ and I was next level MAD about it. I’m pretty sure I scoffed audibly as I scrolled upon it. Toxic positivity? How could those words even be next to each other? I rolled my eyes, threw up my hands....
5 Ways Non-Monogamy Has Made Me a Better Person
This is going to be triggering to some of you, but I am 100% confident in saying that non-monogamy has, in fact, made me a better person - a better me. Relationships are our most powerful self-development vehicle, our partners can be our mirrors, our biggest fans, and...
How to Be the Best Lover They Ever Had
Yesterday I was talking to my good friend, penis & prostate expert, Rachael Z, about past lovers circling back to us to tell us we were the best they ever had. It’s something I pride myself on, I get off on it. I love being a burned-in memory in their spank banks....
Your Turn-On is Your Life Force
Your skin is BUZZING, you feel electric, the hair on your arms are standing on-end, you feel - ALIVE ✨⚡🔥 You feel aroused, awake, aware, fully IN your body in this exact millisecond of time. It’s powerful. Our turn-on is our life force and I believe we are doing it a...
The “Fantasy Trap”
She’s sitting on the edge of the bed, robe dripping off her left shoulder, fresh-faced, moments away from you both sinking deep into your sheets and she tosses out an innocent-enough question, “Have you ever fantasized about having a threesome?” Matrix moment....